LIFE ADVICE:
“Be the first one to smile.”
🙂 Try it. It works.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-22 03:30:00 UTC
LIFE ADVICE:
“Be the first one to smile.”
🙂 Try it. It works.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-22 03:30:00 UTC
THE “EXAGGERATED FIGURE” IS HOW THE MIND ‘SEES’, MOVES AND FEELS
(aesthetic ignorance)(feminist lack of self control)
1) Starting with Michelangelo’s David, possibly reaching it’s greatest heights with the works of Rodin, sculptors sought to appeal to our minds, rather than correspond to reality.
2) We finally understood why humans prefer these dimensions when we learned about the structure of the cortex, and discovered the Cortical Homunculus:
https://harvesteros.files.wordpress.com/…/homunculus.jpg
3) We study eye movements of the genders and we look at ‘parts’. Strangely enough women DO look at feet, and men look at waist and eyes.
As Aesthetic works, Disney figures are ‘perfect’ for appealing to the human mind.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-22 03:09:00 UTC
FEMININE GENETIC DENIALISM
Mothers of Serial Killers, Murderers and Career Criminals Demonstrate Denial As Genetic Cognitive Bias.
Why do you assume that they would not consistently vote and speak to defend our enemies?
Primeval woman was the possession of any group of brothers that could capture her. She cares not who captures the herd, only that there is competition such that women have options.
Woman is Pandora, Eve, and Steinem: destroyer of civilization.
Her talents must be marshaled just as mens must be marshaled.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-21 07:48:00 UTC
Men have had a much harder time taming women’s irrationality and impulsivity than they have their own. We kill off troublesome men. We just constrain troublesome women. Men have no more place in midwifery and nursery than women have in politics and war.
We spent tends of thousands of years incrementally suppressing male behavior while merely containing female behavior. But we turned the ballot box into Pandora’s box and let loose all the evils in the world.
Women have no place in politics and war
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-21 06:03:00 UTC
WOMEN AREN”T MORAL THEY’RE OPPORTUNISTIC
Female Political Openness is just an excuse to obscure their fear of confrontation mixed with their natural optimism about offspring – without which they would never bear the heavy costs of children. We cannot confuse the irrationality of women with science, reason or morality. It is an unscientific, irrational, and immoral impulse that inhabits the female brain for the simple reason that a rational female would never bear and raise children.
Care of the young and old is a female responsibility ad intuition. Care of the civilization is a male responsibility and intuition. Women will give away a civilization out of intuition just as readily as they will gift their children without limit and take the family, tribe, nation, and civilization into conquest and destitution.
Women have no place in politics. That is the less of the past century. In as little as ten decades of political enfranchisement women have destroyed western civilization.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-21 06:02:00 UTC
MOST IMPORTANT LIFE MOMENTS.
University. Classroom. Contract Law. Specifically how to make your case in one page.
Professor emeritus. 85 year old. Shambling fellow. Suit. Arm full of books. From Columbia university.
After I answer a hard question, he asks me if I went to catholic school. I say yes.
Later, he say “The world is not built for us. It is built for average people. We cannot expect or wish that it was built for us. We would never be happy if we did. We can only help average people build a better world.”
I must have needed to hear that very badly at my 19 years of age. It gave me permission to forgive and a mission to help. Unlike Nietzsche’s vision, it gave me permission to set myself apart. And to help and teach rather that convince and persuade.
I remember reading Pareto and it was then that I understood the world was built for production and reproduction using the people that we have. And that a small number of people concentrate the wealth necessary to voluntarily organize that production.
It was only in the past few years that I realized that the only way to make the world better was to reduce the friction created by the underclasses.
They are a boat anchor on mankind.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-20 04:14:00 UTC
THIS WEEK’s ASPIE POST
Aspies tend to love everyone. The difficulty in empathizing, common rejection, and desire for connection with others makes all successful connections more enjoyable. The hard part to manage comes in three:
1) It’s hard to find relations since listening to others most of their language consists of signals we consider either meaningless, tedious or confusing. So you must learn patience to listen and try to ask about how and why people feel the way they do. Most of us understand spoken emotions. Meanwhile the autistic impulse tries to control you into avoiding exactly what you are trying to accomplish. This is why ssri’s are so effective: they dull the impulse and allow you to practice building the strength of will over the autistic impulse. Social anxiety disorder is controlled by the same means. We must see the autism spectrum as excess in uterine suppression of the growth of the self. And that we must assist the growth of the self to compensate. We tend to think as engineers today rather than gardeners and foresters. The mind is constructed more like a tree and some artful bonsai may be needed.
2) It is easy to alienate relations via over sharing minutia fascinating to the autistic mind because system-thought provides constant touch stones amidst sensory chaos in socially and emotionally dense environments. So developing self monitoring is necessary and it’s very hard work. Again the problem is severity: some of us are weakly affected and can rely on will. Others more so and require help in training. Others need chemical assistance to suppress the autistic impulse. And some of us lack sufficient self to imagine the very idea of self monitoring – and it is those people that are non functional.
3) Once you mature having not experienced all the “silly” distractions of normal minds, you can gain this sense of superiority that comes with expertise in anything, and you can lose your desire to engage with (boring, dull, stupid) normals. This requires acceptance that only comes with age: normals have different feelings and needs and they usually fail to mature intellectually as far as we do – or rather they stop maturing at much earlier ages. So the only technique I have developed is love. I keep working a problem in my head in order to keep the big black scary machine busy, and I merely enjoy the company of people like a warm bath or sunny day. But what has surprised me is that simple and good people do not engage in as much signaling with false intellectualism. So I prefer the company of common people for my emotional health, and the company of competitive and intellectual people for my mental health.
So how do we socialize? The trick for us is to develop something we can share with others that is interesting. So that we are valuable to the conversation.
My strategy is to seek to help everyone I encounter in some small way. This usually involves getting to know them while looking for some opportunity to assist.
And in that act of inquiry I show interest in others: seeking to understand, not to agree.
That’s my lesson for this week to aspies.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-20 03:54:00 UTC
LET ME HELP YOU, “MAN BASICALLY IS….”
Before you finish and require correcting, lets get it straight:
“Man follows incentives”.
That’s it.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-17 11:05:00 UTC
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00LWI2RK0NEUROCHEMISTRY OF STATUS
(from a friend)
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-17 01:07:00 UTC
(life lessons)
My wife Allora and I used to shower together in the morning before work. It was the best talk-time for our relationship. You get at least 15 minutes of relative verbal intimacy during the day to talk about what’s on your mind, get some hugs, and make sure you are both ‘in sync’ on your lives. Smart woman. She was a very smart woman. About everything.
My first wife Kitty’s parents had six kids and so they spent a weekend at a hotel once a month. Which I thought was brilliant. But for me, for us, the 15-30 minute showers in the morning, were better for staying mentally close.
Since I have a little trouble seeing emotions, and I have more trouble understanding my own, talking intimately with the woman I love is not only desirable but a necessity. And it’s one of the reasons I think we had what most people considered an enviable relationship.
I loved being married. I love that level of intimacy. I don’t feel ‘complete’ without it. And maybe that is why I worship the women in my life so completely.
Source date (UTC): 2015-12-17 00:46:00 UTC