Mar 6, 2020, 9:37 AM
—“It’s the women who AREN’T looking to be supported who are often the most difficult. For … if they don’t need you for your financial support, that must mean they want you for emotional support. Which is a lot more complicated.”— by Michael Churchill
Be valuable: sexual, social, economic, political, military market value. This is as easy as (a) stay fit, (b) avoid risks to brain (drugs, alcohol), and fix broken brains (therapy, drugs, psychedelic treatments.)
Live within the means of the value you create.
Quality women will upgrade for consumption of stimulation
at lower emotional, psychological, and compromise cost – men are not fulfilling masculine role for the given variability of woman’s demand for masculine traits.
Quality men will upgrade for consumption of femininity at lower emotional, psychological, and compromise cost, given the invariability of the value of femininity to men.
As we age our ability to learn, adapt, and compromise decreases – we demand greater consilience. Successful high school sweethearts from similar backgrounds with similar values working together to raise a family have least risk of divergence of consilience.
Two Parent Working Families with Children in School create insufficient shared experience for relationship persistence.
Our forecast of future value of one another is poor.
Marriages currently operate via trade-ins for this reason.
And while the cost of depreciation on a car is high;
The cost of depreciation on marriage is far, far higher.
This is why we must restore:
– Bring capital to people not people to capital
– Civil Society so we are invested in the commons and one another.
– Possibility of single parent income
– Reduction or eliminate of 4 year high-debt education for all but extreme (outlier) cases.
– Physical, emotional, and mental fitness by mindfulness training, physical fitness, and P-logic so that we have no deciets over the nature of man and what is possible for man.