I hate the word ‘submissive’. I don’t want a submissive woman. Just the opposite

I hate the word ‘submissive’. I don’t want a submissive woman. Just the opposite. So, I understand what’s wrong with this discourse. And I’ll do a little work ‘correcting’ (disambiguating) this question. Tip: feminine power by that category we call ‘seduction’ drives us to serve.