In common language, we call this difference in sexual cognition “Feelz vs Realz”

In common language, we call this difference in sexual cognition “Feelz vs Realz”. In behavior its consumption& care vs capitalization & duty. In cognitive science, it’s empathizing vs systematizing. In Politics, it’s excuse-making consumptive left vs empirical capitalizing right. https://twitter.com/curtdoolittle/status/1424796758635388931