Terminology problem: Men are romantic, women want to be romanced. Two different

Terminology problem: Men are romantic, women want to be romanced. Two different things. Women seduce they don’t romance.

I think devotion emergest as distinct from loyalty as (a) familism and tribalism decrease, (b) economic dependence of women on men decreases. Otherwise, there are incentives. Now the only incentive is friendship.

We must decide whether that is good or different incentives better.