You aren’t thinking this thru. (a) Shame the behavior you want to be suppressed

You aren’t thinking this thru. (a) Shame the behavior you want to be suppressed (b) Don’t shame the people suppressing the behavior.

I get this all the time: People can’t disambiguate shaming the deceitful, criminal, unethical, and immoral, versus shaming to disapprove.

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