Her: “….” (I don’t want to bear and raise kids – I want to hyper-consume, soci

Her: “….” (I don’t want to bear and raise kids – I want to hyper-consume, socialize and virtue signal)

Him” “….” (I don’t want to wage slave and pay taxes – I want to raid, r-pe and pillage)

The only difference is one requires the state and one the absence of it.