Who will lead me in battle? Not, Who will protect us? How can I assist in the fi

Who will lead me in battle? Not, Who will protect us? How can I assist in the fight? Not, Who will fight for us? What is the maximum harm we can inflict in the enemy at the minimum cost? Not, How can I avoid bearing risk or cost? Men ask the first question. Women the second. There is no middle ground. Men own all. Everyone else rides for free. Women and children ride. Men who follow the women are dead weight at best, conspirators with the enemy at worst.