(archived from Adam’s page) Well, there are examples of GROUPS adopting the fema

(archived from Adam’s page)

Well, there are examples of GROUPS adopting the female strategy. There are examples of MEN adopting the female strategy. The consequence of pedomorphism could continue to soften the male strategy (at high costs). But women prefer men who demonstrate the male strategy. Meanwhile we are doing what women SAY they want (feminising men) but DEMONSTRATING that they want something different in mates: the male strategy. So either we stop listening to what women SAY and watch what they do, and change men ourselves, or we are defeated by men who do because that is what women actually want.

There are only two genders. If we try to achieve one, we will end up with none.

Bonobo’s only exist because they aren’t worth EATING by anyone yet. Or put another way, bonobos MAY exist because they were too expensive to eat and not enough of a threat to any male dominance hierarchy to kill off. IN other words, bonobos are soft because others forced them to be. We all tend to model evolution in a vacuum rather than as a competition. When the ‘age of apes’ saw a lot of experimentation within the great ape family, and *almost all variations ended up dead*.)