WHY DO ASPIES CREATE SUCH COMPLETE MODELS (SYSTEMS)?
Actually, its for pretty obvious reasons.
Aspieness (intense world-ers) all behave a little differently but with definite similarity:
– Individual, intense, interests and experiences – hyper-interest.
– Thinking in, speaking in, living in, ‘drawers’, not ‘the moment’. –
– Lacking general consolidated experience (feeling/opinion) normals possess (consolidated human reactions are not present). – ‘cluelessness’.
– Less sense of ‘self’ and ability to ‘judge’ because of that experience. -weaker identity
– Some difficulty empathizing with others emotional states.
– Frustration with social rejection despite desperate desire for it.
We try to build a world out of one of our intense frames to compensate for our lack of identity and a synthesized frame.
Sort of the opposite of solipsistic women who can’t separate themselves from reality, we cannot connect ourselves with reality,and try to recreate a model of reality, because there is no ‘self’ we can make value judgments aganst otherwise.
I don’t consider this a defect, but a necessary talent for a human population, expressible as a sort of specialization.
We like each other, but we understand also, that despite liking each other, that normals are pretty desirable things.
Source date (UTC): 2016-08-13 07:39:00 UTC
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