I usually say that women just constantly try to move the ball forward a millimet

I usually say that women just constantly try to move the ball forward a millimeter at a time. Men try to make long passes. That tends to be the best metaphor I can come up with that explains our different approaches.

Women don’t need to think to run a play. They just push at every opportunity a little bit at a time.

Women behave a little better when men are in the room. I find that men behave a little better when women are in the room. I find there are times when men and women need one another out of the room.

We don’t discuss Engineering, War, Violence, Law, or Punishment with women in the room. They don’t need to know about or understand, that stuff.

And there is a hella lot of stuff women find fascinating to talk about that I don’t want to be in the room for (baby feces). And there is a while bunch of stuff that women NEED to talk about among themselves for which men CANNOT be in the room (women stuff).

division of labor.