RELATIONSHIPS: IS HE OR SHE “INTO” YOU? (love) Let me help you. If she’s ‘doing

RELATIONSHIPS: IS HE OR SHE “INTO” YOU?

(love)

Let me help you. If she’s ‘doing you’ then she’s into you. If she’s not ‘doing you’ then she’s not.

Likewise, if he’s trying to constantly spend time with you, he’s into you. If he isn’t trying constantly to spend time with you, he’s not into you.

Men and women hold out hope. She holds out hope he will give her more attention. He holds out hope that she will give him more sex. But the fact that you hold out hope is an admission of failure.

When we are attracted to each other we cannot bear to be apart. If you can bear to be apart. If you can bear be sleep alone. They you’re not into each other. It’s that simple.

Yes, I am referring to post 1960 relationships. Where our relations are not matters of survival, or matters of economic cooperation, but matters of love and friendship.

There is a difference between Useful, Interesting, fun, passion, and Love. Love is wanting the other person to be happy in order for you to be happy. It’s the inability to live without the other person.

Anything else is merely less. Maybe less than love is enough for some. But it’s not enough for those who produce and desire it.

You must not hope. You must not wait. You must understand: if he or she isn’t attracted to you then move on. Attraction is required for the development of long term love.

Habit is not a reason for a relationship. It certainly isn’t the recipe for an enduring one.