Men get rejected about a hundred times a day, and most of the time we aren’t even interested, but get rejected anyway. lol Women on the other hand, seem to be freaking overwhelmed when they get rejected. This is because when a man is rejected, WHAT the woman rejects is his status, and his genes, and his entertainment value and his caretaking ability. But his input into the sexual relationship is minimal. And the cost to him of that rejection is limited to the time he has currently invested. The cost to a woman is inverse of that. A lifetime of caretaking for a child, and some period of caretaking for the man. When a woman is rejected its saying that all that cost to you isn’t worth even this little cost to me.
The problem for modern man, is that under the current legal system, you have to be as selective with the distribution of your genes as a woman is in selection of your genes. Our instincts don’t match this legally artificial circumstance. So a woman’s reaction needs to understand that because of the law, male rejection is now equal to female rejection: sex is extremely costly, and risky. Not so much for the lower classes who have little economic promise. But for middle and upper class males, a woman is absurdly expensive.
Until we have a male pill. At that point women can’t entrap you. And having been the repeated victim of female entrapment, in no small part because I am cursed with ‘one shot guaranteed success of pregnancy’ I am highly sensitive to this problem.
Source date (UTC): 2014-06-26 04:47:00 UTC
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