http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2417942/Im-single-50-Why-Men-hate-brainier-says-KATE-MULVEY.htmlACTUALLY, WE LOVE SMART WOMEN.
We just prefer they’re feminine.
There are plenty of smart men in the world. But they aren’t feminine either. The scarce thing for men is femininity, not intelligence. Smart men are surrounded by other smart men. And frankly, given that men tend to talk in facts, not experiences, they’re a lot less work to understand, and far more interesting for ‘intelligent conversation’.
I mean, seriously? Why do we need another masculine, competitive, unattractive person in our lives? Women are expensive. They cost us a great deal of effort and money. We must constantly compromise our desires for theirs. Why would we do that without getting femininity in return?
Femininity in any woman that pays attention to us is the ultimate scarcity. Intelligence on the other hand, is a commodity. It isn’t scarce. Intelligent people pay attention to us all the time.
Femininity sells. Nesting sells. Care-taking sells. Period. That’s just the data. We have tons of data now. It all says the same thing. Femininity sells. Everything else is a nice-to-have. You cant sell a nice-to-have on its own.
Femininity is what beauty means. And every woman is capable of it. In fact, it’s pretty hard to avoid being feminine unless you actively try to suppress it.
Did I say ‘feminine’ enough times yet?
Women in my generation got screwed in life. Or didn’t. … er… Whatever…. sigh.
Source date (UTC): 2013-09-16 17:04:00 UTC
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