Parenting (Training, Risk Taking) and Care-taking (Maintenance, Risk Reduction) are very different things. As in all things the competition (market) between via-positiva and via-negativa produces optimums. Why? Anything else would require evolution not err, and frequently fail to adapt. We are not ants. We are special because of how rapidly we adapt. As such it is this market competition that creates a healthy human. Ergo, we education to produce an optimum (failure point, fragility point) because of female influence in education, whereas producing competitions (stresses, adaptions, anti-fragility) produces humans because of male competition. Women have destroyed civilization because they have undue influence in children, education (religion), and government. Pandora was a catastrophe. We have to restore competition (differences) between the genders, not seek equality.
Theme: Agency
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Restoring the Market for Parental Roles
Parenting (Training, Risk Taking) and Care-taking (Maintenance, Risk Reduction) are very different things. As in all things the competition (market) between via-positiva and via-negativa produces optimums. Why? Anything else would require evolution not err, and frequently fail to adapt. We are not ants. We are special because of how rapidly we adapt. As such it is this market competition that creates a healthy human. Ergo, we education to produce an optimum (failure point, fragility point) because of female influence in education, whereas producing competitions (stresses, adaptions, anti-fragility) produces humans because of male competition. Women have destroyed civilization because they have undue influence in children, education (religion), and government. Pandora was a catastrophe. We have to restore competition (differences) between the genders, not seek equality.
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Demonic Males
Male humans (apes) work in packs to kill other male apes and take their territory and females. Female humans (apes) adapt and work in groups to preserve cohesion regardless of which males ‘herd’ (own) them. So lets put the onus on the males there…. Women adapt because they had to.
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Demonic Males
Male humans (apes) work in packs to kill other male apes and take their territory and females. Female humans (apes) adapt and work in groups to preserve cohesion regardless of which males ‘herd’ (own) them. So lets put the onus on the males there…. Women adapt because they had to.
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Women Evolved to Carry a Cognitive Load
As I understand it, on average, it takes three children to produce a rational woman. In other words, the female mind evolved to carry a certain cognitive load, (just as did the male) and without that cognitive load doesn’t perform well. Women with children are less crazy than those without. Women with three or more are less crazy than those with fewer. Women with four to six children do not have the luxury of insanity. So it is better to think of it as men need a physical load and an a loyalty load to stay fit, and women need a cognitive load to stay fit. And for women that fitness comes from governing a brood of children. Evolution is almost always understandable.
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Women Evolved to Carry a Cognitive Load
As I understand it, on average, it takes three children to produce a rational woman. In other words, the female mind evolved to carry a certain cognitive load, (just as did the male) and without that cognitive load doesn’t perform well. Women with children are less crazy than those without. Women with three or more are less crazy than those with fewer. Women with four to six children do not have the luxury of insanity. So it is better to think of it as men need a physical load and an a loyalty load to stay fit, and women need a cognitive load to stay fit. And for women that fitness comes from governing a brood of children. Evolution is almost always understandable.
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THE BENEFIT OF THE COGNITIVE LOAD OF “ENOUGH” FAMILY by Collin Turney I worked d
THE BENEFIT OF THE COGNITIVE LOAD OF “ENOUGH” FAMILY
by Collin Turney
I worked door-to-door selling educational books for families that helped from learning ABC’s to SAT college prep. I met a total of aprx 3000 families, and here is my analysis:
1 kid – highly stressed parents and child as a by product of the psychological stress that comes with the “all the eggs in one basket” mentality. This means strict grade requirements, strict curfews and other things that are small but total up to a large amount of stress on the child because he feels like it is his duty to never fail at anything.
2 kids: assuming tbe kids are close in age, aprx 8 years or less, creates a “versus” mentality in the family. One child is always against the other. This often will pit parents against each other as well as the kids are always trying to earn the favor of whichever parent likes them more. The younger child has a high propensity to be a polar opposite of their older sibling as they are so often compared to their older sibling and feel as if they are living in someone’s shadow and will become different out of spite to build their own identity.
3 kids: Nearing the breaking point. Not many negatives other than the youngest often can get away with murder and the middle one feels he has no identity as he is neither the oldest nor youngest.
4+ children: the parents at this stage are fully occupied with raising the kids and stop giving a crap about their own personal problems and just do what needs to be done to keep everyone fed. Also, they will just let kids be kids and not worry so much about if they are wrestling in the house or coloring on the walls or other petty things because the parents reach a point where they realize if they care to much about each individual thing the kids are doing they would go insane in less than a week. Also, at 4 or more kids the dynamic in the kids is such that the older kids often assume a part in raising the younger ones and everyone is held to the same standard rather than the “vs” mentality of the 2 kids family and the “baby, directionless middle child, and oldest most mature child” mentality of the 3 kids family.
The chillest family I met had 8 kids under the age of 10 and the kids were in the middle of what seemed to be the toddler version of MMA in their front yard and the parents gave no hecks.
Source date (UTC): 2018-06-17 10:02:00 UTC
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Male humans (apes) work in packs to kill other male apes and take their territor
Male humans (apes) work in packs to kill other male apes and take their territory and females.
Female humans (apes) adapt and work in groups to preserve cohesion regardless of which males ‘herd’ (own) them.
So lets put the onus on the males there…. Women adapt because they had to.
Source date (UTC): 2018-06-16 19:00:00 UTC
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LISTEN. PEOPLE REVOLT UNDER PREDICTABLE CRITERIA Listen, people revolt when (a)
LISTEN. PEOPLE REVOLT UNDER PREDICTABLE CRITERIA
Listen, people revolt when (a) there are enough excess(unsatisfied) young men, (b) the status quo is no longer tolerable (c) there is some factor that is discreet enough to rally against, (d) they have something to revolt in favor of, (e) they have some idea of the sequence of actions to bring it about, and (f) a vision of the consequences that is better than the status quo.
Talk is cheap. Actions are not. Plans are not. Because both actions and plans are testable.
Source date (UTC): 2018-06-16 18:22:00 UTC
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Why We Get It Wrong: ‘Ableness and Agency’
That’s why we always get it wrong: only SOME of us want sovereignty, liberty, and freedom. Most all humans instead want security and subsidy. Which is ok. As long as they don’t have say in anything.