Stop thinking of Blue cities, but Female and Immigrant Cities. Because the country is Red except for women and (recent) immigrants.
Stop thinking that something is wrong with our civilization but instead, that giving women the vote expressed their instincts.
Stop thinking that all immigrants are bad, but that any immigrant that can’t pass a college entrance exam in the upper 50% is bad.
The common law used to take into account our sex, class, culture, and racial differences. But with the advent of positive law, we failed to bring forward those prohibitions- for no other reason than males were more able to take advantage of the technology invented by europeans for both good and ill. It has only been a short while that we have included others, who do not share our presumptions and traditions. And we must merely suppress their antisocial behavior as we have our own.
And thats fairly easy to fix.