Category: Personal Reflections and Diary

  • RT @Hail__To_You: A good commentary from @Exquofonte — it is, in fact, a 4500-

    RT @Hail__To_You: A good commentary from @Exquofonte — it is, in fact, a 4500-word essay on religion and the West, uploaded as a youtube…


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-23 18:01:27 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1871254809791381529

  • I’m jones generation (‘wall street’. coming of age in the 80s.) and have a high

    I’m jones generation (‘wall street’. coming of age in the 80s.) and have a high affinity for X and no affinity for boomers. Sorry. I despise those boomer hippies.)


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-21 19:25:12 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1870551110458679679

    Reply addressees: @_goldswine @GadSaad

    Replying to: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1870523522126361000

  • THIS ONE: BEING IN CHARGE MEANS DIFFERENT THINGS. I PLAY MERLIN NOT ARTHUR 1) I

    THIS ONE:

    BEING IN CHARGE MEANS DIFFERENT THINGS. I PLAY MERLIN NOT ARTHUR

    1) I am an INTP. I actively seek out INTJ’s to ‘run things’. So I suspect that the possibility of being ‘in charge’ tactically (INTJ) or strategically (INTP) is not something the ordinary folk reading the OP intuit. My ability to absorb and make use of information is better suited to exploiting strategic opportunities(strategy) than seeking operational efficiencies (tactics). This is common for sales-oriented executives.

    2) When I run companies I hire strong operations people to manage daily operations (details). I focus on processes, developing executive talent, expanding the business, doing acquisitions, winning customers, deals, and acquiring (usually stealing) talent. I give almost all control to these people and in particular I don’t ever sign checks, and only sign contracts as a secondary. I prefer a board meeting where every group reports. I use my board and management team. I expect them to falsify my ideas. If I can’t convince them, I don’t do it. If I can, and we get unanimity I do it. That’s sort of a knights of the round-table thing.

    3) I find that smart diligent people can do operations, and that there are many of them. I find daily operations (finance(banks, investors), accounting(ar/ap,payroll), managerial accounting (measurements), contracts, both tedious, boring, and a bad use of my time. I am better at doing what others cannot do nearly as well. That is especially true of training a management team from supernerds, and continuous strategic expansion of the business.

    4) To some degree I run a business as if I am a consultant running continuous strategy sessions. Because, running strategy sessions (business analysis, strategy, operations, and tactics). I evolved a habit of working hard for three months to drive the business strategically involving a lot of people in strategy sessions, and then working lightly and tactically for three months letting the management team ‘take charge’ (learn), then repeating the cycle. I meet with a BIG management team every week, and I consider it a class in operating businesses. I run it like a grad session.

    5) While this model works best for me, there are problems with this method that I have observed repeatedly. (a) the staff grows overconfident as daily management, since they do not realize what I am doing to and with them and this ends up with power struggles. (b) companies seem to always survive my departure, but stagnate and lose their ‘magic’.

    6) So far my only ‘failures’ have been when I am unable to find that operations person, or when the person I do find is overconfident and has bad intuitions. (three times). There is a reason I’ve partnered with the same people over multiple companies. We know our roles. Curt (sales, delivery, talent/ ceo), Jim(operations / president-COO) and steven (customer service/evp).

    7) the problem with being ‘visionary’ to some degree, is that it is almost impossible for people to grok you’re plans, and they will circle to outmaneuver some plans if they understand them. SO this is why I have a reputation somewhere between merlin and the devil.

    I think the reason people like working for me is the “run a company like a grad session” model, with a LOT of participants, while holding decisions to the partners (owners).

    I think the reasons people don’t like working for me are numerous.

    Jul 07, 2018 8:33am

    Reply addressees: @Hail__To_You


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-21 04:13:23 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1870321644767686656

    Replying to: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1870317908007825594

  • ( Also a thread running through poland and russia. I have a crush on a friend in

    ( Also a thread running through poland and russia. I have a crush on a friend in RU. 😉 )


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-20 23:18:25 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1870247413950361884

    Reply addressees: @uberboyo

    Replying to: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1869993638303846669

  • (Divorces) I’ve had two ‘real’ marriages (4 yrs, 20yrs) and one of legal necessi

    (Divorces)
    I’ve had two ‘real’ marriages (4 yrs, 20yrs) and one of legal necessity (2 yrs). Otherwise every relationship has been effectively long term with the prospect of marriage on the table.
    Four of my five long term ex’s married or remarried men more suitable to them and they have (at least from the outside) remained happily married. Usually women change faster than men, but in my case I changed faster than women.
    However those ex’s almost all gen-x.
    I would never ever encourage a man to marry a woman from the Millenial or Z generations, and I have doubts about the Alpha generation.
    One benefit is that conservatives are already outbreeding the progressives. And I’m wondering how this plays out over time. I can see .. oh, maybe six or eight different futures depending upon how distinct the differences.


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-19 19:50:32 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1869832711642460160

  • When I was a kid, you could order a weather balloon for next to nothing, hang a

    When I was a kid, you could order a weather balloon for next to nothing, hang a little flashlight or candle off it and fill it with either just hot air or helium, and be almost guaranteed to get in the local paper.

    Nothing new… lol


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-19 19:43:16 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1869830881604780361

  • (always send me ideas to comment on. if I have the time and can add value I’ll r

    (always send me ideas to comment on. if I have the time and can add value I’ll respond.) ;). -hugs


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-18 20:57:11 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1869487094063915471

    Reply addressees: @the_urb

    Replying to: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1869485694634365102

  • (Diary) Usual rainy day in western washington. Running below empty, I pull in to

    (Diary)
    Usual rainy day in western washington. Running below empty, I pull in to the gas station. A Loomis truck is parked outside collecting cash, and the doors are locked. From outside through the glass I salute the driver and give thumbs up and he relaxes. A woman finishes pumping nine dollars worth of gas. Fumbles with her phone, purse and cards, and approaches the door as well. Her attire, body language, and facial lines tell a story of someone on the margin who maintains responsibility for herself and suffers through her limitations quietly. I tell her that the cash truck is here and it’ll take a minute or two before they’ll let us in.
    When the loomis guard leaves, the cashier unlocks our door, and I say “ladies first” to this woman.
    I’m not exactly sure what happened but something akin to the prepaid card booked the gas and for some reason she was stressed about money – I think, just to buy a pack of cigarettes.
    I asked the clerk to reset the pump and explain something about the user interface, thanked her and left to pump the gas.
    I walk out and this distressed woman asks if I can give her five dollars. I smile, say “of course dear” tell here that we have to take care of one another, flip through the little cash I’m carrying and giver her a five. She tears up and hugs me.
    Now, aside from feeling I did my good deed for the day, I”m exasperated. Because this woman doesn’t have seven kids from seven baby daddies, she is responsible for herself, she lacks the capacity for responsibility for others and capital of the higher classes, but she is good christian and american citizen.
    And I feel rage that we are abandoning these people across the country, and pandering to immigrants and those who won’t integrate, and those leftists who are selfish, and those credentialists that are simply thieves.
    And I want, with every fiber in me, to correct this injustice – and if necessary by ‘aggressively unpleasant’ means.

    Love you all.
    I’ve had enough.


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-17 18:39:03 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1869089943429197825

  • a Special Way of Raising His Daughters

    a Special Way of Raising His Daughters https://youtube.com/shorts/9SRo0Hq9xAo?si=gSGX0pKCqj9Iq-_6


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-16 21:48:46 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1868775302513705114

  • I dress the way I do because I’ve been responsible for money, people, and busine

    I dress the way I do because I’ve been responsible for money, people, and businesses for most of my life. Maybe when I’m “done” with signaling high trustworthiness.


    Source date (UTC): 2024-12-14 01:48:55 UTC

    Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1867748573431181322

    Reply addressees: @Iamblichos32

    Replying to: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1867748198598705389