–“Q: CURT; You often say women don’t chose the right mate if they’re not socialized properly. Can you explain that more thoroughly please?”–
Great question.
Women are attracted to what they understand as dominance expression (safety). The problem is teaching women what forms of dominance expression (productive competency, demonstrated responsibility) results in the formation or relationships, marriages, families, and successful offspring given the time taken for high investment parenting necessary for the preservation of the returns on high trust for western civilization.
In the absence of that training, women will follow the most primitive mating impulse that provides the shortest term attention, stimulation, status, and gratification – in other words, female mating instincts are contrary to responsibility because female instincts are contrary to responsibility – until they have children – and only for her children.
The female instict when not directed to the responsibility for her children leads always and everywhere to saturation of the marketplace with her demand for self image and status seeking by hyperconsumption, hyperattention (also hyperconsumpption) and hypergamy (also hyperconsumption) and the evasion of all responsibility for the commons (also hyperconsumption.)
So her problem is not falling into seduction by short term dominance expression for reproductive survival in natural selection in absence of male investment, and instead for longer term durability for quality of continuous male investment under civilizational selection (markets). Similar to how men must learn to work, build institutions governments, and armies instead of raid.
In other words evolution provides women with a fallback instinct in case civilization collapses. But without culture, norms, traditions and institutions, evolution of people within civilization will never survive or evolve within civilization. In other words genetic instinct for survival by natural selection hasn’t caught up with trained intuiition for survival in civilizational selection.
In other words evolution provides a fallback instinct in case civilization collapses, but without culture, norms, traditions and institutions, evolution of people within civilization will never evolve within civilization.
In other words genetic instinct for survival by natural selection hasn’t caught up with trained intuiition for survival in civilizational selection.
So in our current mouse utopia, women are causing civilizational collapse, that exists only because of the disintegration of the traditional (not nuclear) family, labor mobility, the delay of reproduction into the 30s due to education, higher eduction, and employment for the purpose of hyperconsumption.
The males act accordingly, and as such a few males make only opportunisticaly and not reproductively, and male NEED for responsibility greater than themselves never develops, even if they don’t impose hyperconsumptive costs on the commons.
We are dying for the same reason mice do in mouse utopia.
Cheers