EXPLANATION
All this graph says is that dating apps are a terrible means of developing attraction, and that women must FEEL attraction while men are willing to invest and discover it (unless they are highly desirable in which case it’s just a numbers game.)
That’s all this chart tells us.
Why?
The difference between the sexes is brain differences in time orientation. (yes really,and no it’s not complicated)
– Women live in now and men live in then.
– Women live in empathizing (now) and men live in systematizing (then).
– Women live in neuroticism (now) and men live in calm (then)
– Women live in consumption(now) and men live in capitalization (then).
– Women live in devotion (now) and men live in loyalty (then)
These are evolutionary differences produced by the necessity of the reproductive division of labor between women and childbearing and resource allocation, and men and territorial control and resource production.
These compatibilities can only be discovered rather slowly and with investment on the part of both parties.
Seek value compatibility first.
We are having a population crash. Exacerbated by losee of national competitive advantage, a relationship collapse, a marriage and family collapse, and a reproductive collapse, almost guaranteeing that we will lack the competent productive populations necessary to provide the social services, and employment, particularly for the care of the retired (if there ever will be again).
Grow up.
Restore the family not the individual as the primary purpose of policy.
Reply addressees: @datepsych @SteveStuWill @cait_CST
Source date (UTC): 2023-09-12 04:43:57 UTC
Original post: https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1701456589511634944
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