@Haumibu1488@user1010011010 Brother you are making a common error, and that is that you are common. You cannot insill feelings in those who do not have them – worse in those whose feelings oppose them. As such, we cannot demand others feel the way we feel. This is the want of wome, children, and naieve men.
The means by which all peoples rule are ruled, govern and are governed, produce and reproduce, are those that we write in law, precisely because they do not depend on shared feelings, shared instincts, but because they produce, over time, training in those behaviors and encouragement of those feelings, despite the differences in our constitutions.
The religius, the spiritual, the aesthetically dominant do not understand this because they do not compreend that others do not obtain their intuition from the same feelings. Some of us feel, some of us immitate, some of us reason, and some of calculuate.
As such we must only be loyal to one another under the same laws, regardless of our feelings. And then, over decades, and possibly centuries people with habituate the feeling rather than requiring all to have it by genetic disposition.
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