HOMOPHOBIC CULTURAL OBSERVATIONS
I’m from New England. English heritage. We’re ‘huggy’. Still familial. And teasing is still part of our language.
In business I pretty much hug everyone. Despite what people say about being uncomfortable, demonstrated approval both reduces people’s fear of you as ‘the boss’ and creates a more relaxed atmosphere.
In every company I use and try to propagate this kind of affection. It works.
So, here in Ukraine it’s just not OK. I hugged a guy yesterday and he said “this is making me uncomfortable”. I laughed. Said it was cultural.
But you don’t see three drunk guys walking down the street with their arms around each other here.
I like our way better. Men are men here. That’s true.
But if you’re confident in your masculinity then you shouldn’t be offended by false threats to it.
Source date (UTC): 2013-06-08 05:47:00 UTC