Yes you are right our mainstream culture has devolved into pandering (which mean

Yes you are right our mainstream culture has devolved into pandering (which means failing to take responsibility for others) vs just decadence (which means failing to take responsibility for ourselves).

(Also, yes, I understand. In my reply I was trying to show that the legal definition of pandering (formal) by which we can bring one another to court, is narrower than the immoral act of pandering (informal) that we can only use criticism and ostracization against (at present)).

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