Well, yes BUT…. And the “but” is the hard part. (a) where can you exit to that

Well, yes BUT…. And the “but” is the hard part. (a) where can you exit to that’s better? And (b) if you exit the costs of that group, will those whom you exit from tolerate the benefits you obtain from that group when not paying those costs?

There must be somewhere to go, and people who will tolerate you being there. Given that there is no ‘undiscovered country’ and given that it’s impossible to survive without a country, polity, and economy, that limits your options.

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