Nina; Women seek (a) attention (b) empathizing (c) emotional reward (self assura

Nina;

Women seek (a) attention (b) empathizing (c) emotional reward (self assurance, suppression of neurorticism) (d) in time.

Men seek (b) opportunity for productivity (b) systematizing (understanding), (c) capitalization, (d) over time.

Feels in-time.
Reals over-time.

We could say one is better than the other but it’s just a division of labor between taking care of individuals in need vs organizing to supply the resources needed for all the polity irrespectively.

Marriage is an optium agreement between the sexes. The incentives no longer favor marriage. The problem is children require at least both parents, and for mental health require male parents more than female.

So we must solve this problem.

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