NEOLOGISM: “DELUSIONSHIP” |Intersexual Relationship|: Acquiescence < Marriage <

NEOLOGISM: “DELUSIONSHIP”

|Intersexual Relationship|: Acquiescence < Marriage < Committed Relationship < Relationship < “Delusionship” < Dating < Situationship < Hookup < Accident < Availability.

(Not sure what’s missing from the hierarchy – pls suggest if you can think of any. 😉 )

Comparison
No agency, no ability to make decisions, no responsibility, no accountability, VICTIMhood = Children (infantilism). 😉
-vs-
Agency, ability to make decisions, responsibility, accountability < VICTOR (adulthood).

Difference:
Transactional exchange vs > reciprocity (exteralities) vs > investment (over time)

Counsel
I tried, with every woman I dated, to discover how I could create a relationship with this person, by fulfilling what they needed in exchange to the best of my ability. That’s called ‘adaptation’.

I think people are online shopping as individuals who want to escape adaptation (hyperconsumption in time) instead of seeking reciprocity and self-adaptation (capitalization over time).