You are afraid of conflict. You have no responsibilities. You have no responsibi

You are afraid of conflict.
You have no responsibilities.
You have no responsibility because you have no competency.
People with competency accumulate responsibilities and so must decide, manage, and govern.
You are courteous because you are afraid, and because you have no responsibilities because you have no competency.
I speak as someone responsible, who must bear the cost of conflict, and be unfraid of conflict, in order to fulfill those responsibilities with the competencies I”ve developed.