MALE AND FEMALE DIFFERENCES IN EXTERNALIZATION
Relationships require we learn the difference between hearing, listening, considering, and what’s worth discussing. Most human speech consists of thinking out loud, and trust relationships let us do so safely. Much speech is just anger, frustration, or joy release. 😉
We don’t think of our verbal expressions of emotional release in high-trust circumstances as necessary, and as necessary for cognitive computation but it is – it’s running a test of a theory of the intuition, on terms the intuition can undrestand and adapt to. This is PROFOUND.
Women are more able to process emotions this way but less able to regulate them. Men are more able to regulate their emotions but less able to process them. This is one of the primary utilities of intersexual cooperation in high trust we call relationships (or marriage).
This is why women chatter and emote endlessly – to use other women for regulation of internal expressions of what might result in antisocial behavior, and why men use fire gazing, trash talking, and other loyalty signals for the same reason.
Pehaps the most ironic aspect of male and female differences is the female as generalist with ability but unwillingness to adapt, and the male specialist with willingess but inability to adapt.
God is a comedian of sorts. 😉
He forces us to compute evolution by cooperation.
So again, the universe HAS to equilibrate any difference, because every body form works with the same problem of energy production and application. So all male and female differences consist of TRADE OFFS. For any difference discover the trade off between male and female.
Source date (UTC): 2021-10-18 15:13:49 UTC
Original post: https://gab.com/curtd/posts/107123181418408122
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