Trump might be whatever unpleasant term you label him with – the fact is that he

Trump might be whatever unpleasant term you label him with – the fact is that he’s correct in just about every policy he implements.
FWIW: You are simply demonstrating the female cognitive bias by concerning yourself with his likability instead of his policies. And if you disagree with his policies you’re either wrong or immoral or both. Mommy-instincts exist for the survival of fragile children and do not scale to social, economic, political, or geostrategic ends.
The fact that you don’t know this and/or can’t internalize it is a failure of either your upbringing or education or both.