THE FLIRTATIONS OF OLDER WOMEN (Cultural Observations: older Ukrainian women fli

THE FLIRTATIONS OF OLDER WOMEN

(Cultural Observations: older Ukrainian women flirt like humans communicate with cats – you have to sort of ignore them if you want their attention. The same for older Ukrainian women. They give you that look that is long enough to say you exist, but not long enough to give you positive encouragement. It’s hysterical. I am not sure why I didn’t cue on it before. (too subtle.) Then they wonder why foreign men just assume that they’re not interested. And my guess is that the women think the men don’t consider them attractive. But it’s not the case. It’s that they think that they’ve been rejected already. Western men are simple. Just smile and say hello. Ask directions, or the time. It works the other way ’round you know, except that the more unwanted attention a woman gets the less friendly she tends to be, while the less unwanted attention she gets the more conversant she will be. The ‘game’ system is really a young people’s art. Because you don’t have evidence that you’re worthwhile. As you get older the evidence that you have your shit together or not is more obvious. And harder to fake.)