Women have a lot of choices from 16-32, and men have a lot of choices from 35-up

Women have a lot of choices from 16-32, and men have a lot of choices from 35-upward. So men are sort of picky complainers about women in my age range the same way that women are picky complainers when they are in their prime. The problem in our range is money. You can find nice girls, pretty girls, smart girls, and girls who don’t want to spend your money with reckless abandon. But its very hard to find all of that in one package.

One of the reasons Ukrainian women in the last category are so rare, is that women compete here on femininity not masculinity, so they need resources to do that, and the result doesn’t make money, but encourages laxity. In the states women first want a man to increase status and consumption, then to increase resources for reproduction, then to provide economic security when the children are gone. Men tend to want the same thing all along: sex, nesting and care-taking.

I have usually done pretty well by sacrificing a bit on looks to get intelligence. I suppose women look at me and sacrifice hight for intelligence (lol). However the combination of not-nice, and spending your money with abandon, is a pretty bad deal, no matter how smart and pretty they are.

And since I am pretty much incapable of existence in the world without that care-taking, I’d prefer it was nice and to control the costs. 🙂

sigh.

Why share this. ‘Cause men don’t. And should. Whether you live old age in wealth or poverty depends largely on the woman you choose.