(Diary) I don’t care about anyone’s sexual preference. But I do care they’re com

(Diary)
I don’t care about anyone’s sexual preference. But I do care they’re comfortable in their skin. And have some vague chance of ‘fitting in’. But after repeated observations the japanese trans thing just doesn’t work for the men. Just met this guy standing in line at Starbucks. Hair, skirt, the whole thing. But the morphology and the body language? I mean. It just doesn’t work. And that’s despite the level of neoteny. Combine that with east asian sense of and need of conformity, and male-female differences in language and behavior – and it’s this weird self consciousness made debilitating by choice. (Sigh)