(Divorces) I’ve had two ‘real’ marriages (4 yrs, 20yrs) and one of legal necessi

(Divorces)
I’ve had two ‘real’ marriages (4 yrs, 20yrs) and one of legal necessity (2 yrs). Otherwise every relationship has been effectively long term with the prospect of marriage on the table.
Four of my five long term ex’s married or remarried men more suitable to them and they have (at least from the outside) remained happily married. Usually women change faster than men, but in my case I changed faster than women.
However those ex’s almost all gen-x.
I would never ever encourage a man to marry a woman from the Millenial or Z generations, and I have doubts about the Alpha generation.
One benefit is that conservatives are already outbreeding the progressives. And I’m wondering how this plays out over time. I can see .. oh, maybe six or eight different futures depending upon how distinct the differences.