We are never equal. We are somewhere between incompatible, compatible, or extrao

We are never equal. We are somewhere between incompatible, compatible, or extraordinarily compatible. We are never equal, and never can be. The biological, perceptual, instinctual, intuitive, valuative, and cognitive differences between the sexes begin from polar opposite positions:

Women seek (a) attention (b) empathizing (c) emotional reward (self assurance, suppression of neurorticism) (d) in time.

Men seek (b) opportunity for productivity (b) systematizing (understanding), (c) capitalization, (d) over time.

Feels in-time. Reals over-time.

We could say one is better than the other but it’s just a division of labor in time between the short term taking care of individuals in need vs the long term organizing to supply the resources needed for all the polity irrespectively.

Marriage is an optium agreement between the sexes. The incentives no longer favor marriage.

The problem is children require at least both parents, and for mental health require male parents more than female.

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