“Why Women Don’t Apologize” (correct analysis) There is a difference between wha

“Why Women Don’t Apologize”
(correct analysis)

There is a difference between what men and women percieve as a problem. Again, systematizing (over time) vs empathizing (in time).

For men, it’s a consequence of her behavior, wanting acknowledgement of the fault, and changing behavior. Apologies matter more to men than women.

For women, the problem is that the man is angry and upset – the emotions not the behavior are the problem. So women use coping strategies to modify men’s behavior instead of appologizing – which is all that men require.

Women notoriously use sex in mollifying mens behavior. Rather than just apologizing for her behavior, she offered herself as a peace offering.

Why? Women replay this nonsense endlessly unless her emotions are recalibrated, and they detect restoration of non-conflict.

Men respect people who take responsibility for themselves. So for a woman to apologize produces respect for her. Whereas every other behavior from emotional mollification and sexual offering, diminishes his respect for her.

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