I don’t generally have ‘fears’ about any relationship. I can either make it work

I don’t generally have ‘fears’ about any relationship. I can either make it work or I can’t. That’s frustration or not, not fear or not. Fear means you either are unwilling to produce a reciprocal relationship (your fault), or your spouse is unwilling to (his or her fault). https://twitter.com/curtdoolittle/status/1590366363666632704